Dr. Robyn Silverman Appears on the Tyra Banks Show Again!

Did you catch The Tyra Show Halloween special? This was a fun show…check out this clip where I helped Caitlyn (along with Top Model, Toccara!) overcome her fear of all things Halloween as she conquered Blood Manner in NYC. The courage technique I used with Caitlyn which I created for my coaching clients, is called [...]

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Ask Dr. Robyn: When Ho, Ho, Ho means Buy, Buy, Buy

by DrRobyn on December 25, 2009

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Dear Dr. Robyn,

My child does not stop talking about what he wants for the holidays this year.  Every time a new toy or game is shown on TV, I hear “I want that!”  I think the media has it in for us.  What am I supposed to do?

–Josie K., NC

Dear Josie K.,

Holidays and commercialism. I love this time of year, don’t you? Yet while it is filled with the comfort and warmth of loved ones, it is also the biggest commercial season of the year.  Think of the sales! The must-have toys of the season! Corporations vie for your attention and of course, the attention of your children.

Believe it or not, it is estimated that advertisers spend more than $12 billon per year on advertising messages aimed at your children. More than half of the toy industry’s annual $30 billion in sales happen during the weeks leading up to the holiday season. Therefore while the average child watches more than 40,000 TV commercials per year— or 100 per day—perhaps the most influential commercials happen in preparation for December’s spending frenzy. [click to continue…]

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Too “Over-weight” to fly? Open-mindedness meets safety question

December 16, 2009 Body Image

As we’ve been discussing open-mindedness and opening up a few cans of worms this month, I thought I’d bring another baffling issue to light. There has been a great deal of debate about a man, categorized as obese, who was recently a passenger on a plane when a flight attendant too this picture.
According to Kieran [...]

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Discrimination? High School Girl Benched Due to Pregnancy

December 10, 2009 Parenting tips

There have been some stories running in the news in recent days that have gotten some to perk up their ears and yell “discrimination!” while others are rolling their eyes telling them to get over themselves. So this week– let’s open up this slimy bag of worms, shall we?
STORY: A high school volleyball player and [...]

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Brave, Powerful Boy Donates Hair to Locks of Love

December 8, 2009 Character Education

At a time when most 6th graders would rather crawl up and die than to be seen as “different,” it’s an anomaly that one boy would endure taunts, teasing, bullying and rude comments to grow his hair out “and look like a girl” for a good cause. David Stearns of Appleton, ME,  (Powerful student at [...]

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Dr. Robyn Silveman introduces December’s Powerful Word: Open-Mindedness

December 3, 2009 Character Education

Open-mindedness Quotes
“Stay committed to your decisions, but flexible in your approach.” — Tom Robbins
“Don’t fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of a life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.” –Unknown
“As we grow better, we meet better people.” –Elbert Hubbard
“Beware when any idea is [...]

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Ask Dr. Robyn: What Happened to the “Thanks” part of Thanksgiving?

November 24, 2009 Character Education

Questions to discuss with your children at the Thanksgiving Table:
What are you grateful for this year?
Who have you thanked recently and for what?
Who has thanked you and why?
How can you donate your Time, Treasures, and Talents this year?
What is it about your family makes you grateful?
What is it about your school or your friends that [...]

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Selfish Kids? Creating Generous, Helpful Kids

November 19, 2009 Character Education

I know. We’ve mentioned this kind of thing before. Generosity and children…now? It seems almost impossible to think about teaching your children to give at the same time as they are thrusting their holiday gift list in your face, Santa Claus is Coming to Town has been playing since the day after Halloween, and the [...]

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Dear Dr. Robyn: Are Dads Really Important to Their Daughters?

November 13, 2009 Body Image

I’ve been receiving several questions about Dads lately—especially in the context of divorce, and how important it is for mothers to encourage their girls to retain a relationship with their Dads. Even when there is animosity and frustration between parents, a strong relationship between Dads and Daughters is vital. Here I talk about why it’s [...]

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Ask Dr. Robyn: Teaching Dependability to Children

November 9, 2009 Monthly Video
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The Powerful Word of the Month is Dependability! Today, I’m answering a question from Nancy, a parent in Morristown, NJ, about how to teach children to become dependable.
Dear Dr. Robyn,
My child is still pretty young but I would like him to learn to be dependable now instead of waiting until he is older.  My sister’s [...]

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