Dr. Robyn Silverman Appears on the Tyra Banks Show Again!

Did you catch The Tyra Show Halloween special? This was a fun show…check out this clip where I helped Caitlyn (along with Top Model, Toccara!) overcome her fear of all things Halloween as she conquered Blood Manner in NYC. The courage technique I used with Caitlyn which I created for my coaching clients, is called [...]

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Ask Dr. Robyn: Teaching Dependability to Children

by DrRobyn on November 9, 2009

The Powerful Word of the Month is Dependability! Today, I’m answering a question from Nancy, a parent in Morristown, NJ, about how to teach children to become dependable.

Dear Dr. Robyn,

My child is still pretty young but I would like him to learn to be dependable now instead of waiting until he is older.  My sister’s son is 12 and seems to have never learned his lesson.  She always has to bail him out of some mess he’s gotten into and he resents it when she even proposes that he takes responsibility for his actions. She bribes him constantly and the stakes just seem to be getting higher. What needs to be done in order to help my child learn these skills?

–Nancy, Morristown, NJ

Warm regards,

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Introducing the New Powerful Word of the Month: Dependability

November 4, 2009 Character Education
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The Powerful Word of the Month is Dependability! Here are some great “dependability quotes” to get us inspired!
“Promises are like crying babies in a theater, they should be carried out at once.” (Norman Vincent Peale, preacher, author, and originator of the “Power of Positive Thinking.”)
“Be the person who can keep a secret, isn’t a gossip, [...]

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Are Toddler Bras the New Underoos? Age compression or the same old, same old?

October 28, 2009 Body Image
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There must be people buying it. I mean, they wouldn’t be selling it if someone—no, a whole host of people, were buying it.  Someone thinks it’s cute to dress their little girls up like their own portable “mini-me” replete with toddler bras, heavy make-up, and high heels.  Is it time to get a grip? Anyone? [...]

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Are you disciplining your child the right way? Consequences of physical discipline

October 27, 2009 Character Education
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Parenting can be stressful.  Places to go, people to see, homework to do, dinner to cook, laundry to fold, and a mile long list of to-dos that have been accumulating since 1999.  A fresh mouth and uncooperative behavior can be just the thing that breaks the camel’s back for some parents. They want their children [...]

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The Power of Zero: Fat Talk Free Week Video

October 22, 2009 Body Image
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As the guest body image blogger for today’s End Fat Talk campaign for Fat Talk Free Week, I really got to thinking about the power of that little size zero in the lives of so many girls and women these days. Such a round number, and yet such a strong dictator of straight lines for [...]

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Congratulations, Powerful Kids! How These Kids are Showing Discipline!

October 19, 2009 Character Education
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The Powerful Words Projects this month asked for the students to submit how they are showing discipline in their lives.  I’m proud to say congratulations to these top 3 Powerful Kids! We applaud you!

Bryce Logan—who submitted his answer first! He writes from Mr. Prieto’s school, Chun Kuk Do Karate of the Woodlands, and says “I [...]

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Can Ralph Lauren Please Get A Grip? Size 4 model fired for being Overweight

October 15, 2009 Body Image
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*Sigh.* Am I writing about the same thing everyday? First Karl Lagerfeld then Christian Louboutin. Now, Ralph Lauren is on my “maybe you shouldn’t have a mouth” list or at least please, read the guidebook to know when to keep it shut. I was interviewed for The Daily News on this topic for today’s follow [...]

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Oh Goodie: Barbie Has Cankles and Needs Plastic Surgery

October 13, 2009 Body Image
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In the spirit of “some people just shouldn’t have a mouth” or perhaps just need a guide book on when to shut it, Christian Louboutin is now on the list.
Mr. Louboutin is designing 3 of our childhood favorites but felt that Barbie needed some plastic surgery…on her ankles…because they were, get this, too fat! Yup.  [...]

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Discipline…The October Powerful Word of the Month

October 13, 2009 Character Education
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Do your children and teens listen to the external rules guiding them to do what is expected of them in the home, at school, and out in the community? Most of the time? That’s a big part of discipline, our Powerful Word of the Month.  But there is also another part– making sure that they [...]

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